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 HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE

Have you ever admired those successful people who seem to have it all? You see them chatting confidently at social parties and business meeting. They’re the ones with the best job, nicest partners and the most interesting friends.

They’re not necessarily smarter than you, or even better looking. So, what’s their secret?

They simple have a more skillful way of communicating with other people.

So, let’s begin with Having it all………………The incredible, inescapable, unique sense of you.

TECHNIQUE: 1 

 THE FLOODING SMILE

Don’t flash an immediate smile when you greet someone, as though anyone who walked into your line of sight would be the beneficiary. Instead look at the other person’s face for a second. Pause. Soak in their persona. Then let a big, warm, responsive smile flood over your face and overflow into your eyes. It will engulf the recipient like warm wave. The split-second delay convinces people your flooding smile is genuine and only for them.

TECHNIQUE: 2    

STICKY EYES

Pretend your eyes are glued to your conversation partner’s with sticky warm toffee. Don’t break eye contact even after he or she has finished talking. When you must look away, do it ever so slowly, reluctantly, stretching the gooey toffee until the tiny string finally breaks.

TECHNIQUE: 3 

EPOXY EYES

This brazen technique packs a powerful punch. Watch your target person even if someone else is talking. No matter who is speaking, keep looking at the man or women you want to impact. This way Mr. or Ms. target still feels you are intrigued by his or her reaction, yet there is relief from the intensity.

TECHNIQUE :4  

 LIMIT THE FIDGET

Whenever your conversation really counts, let your nose itch, your ear tingle, or your foot prickle. Do not fidget, twitch, wiggle, squirm, or scratch. And above all, keep your paws away from your face. Hand motions near your face and all fidgeting can give your listener the gut feeling you’re fibbing.

TECHNIQUE: 5    

HAN’S HORSE SENSE

Make it a habit to get on a dual track while talking. Express yourself, but keep a eye on how your listener is reacting to what you’re saying. Then plan your moves accordingly.

If a horse can do It, so can a human. people will say you pick up on everything . you never miss a trick. You’ve got horse sense.

TECHNIQUE: 6    

WATCH THE SCENE BEFORE YOU MAKE THE SCENE

Rehearse being the super somebody you want to be ahead of time. See yourself walking around with Hang by your Teeth posture, shaking hands, smiling the Flooding smile, and making Sticky Eyes. Hear yourself chatting comfortably with everyone. Feel the pleasure of knowing you are in peak from and everyone is gravitating towards you.

Visualize yourself a Super somebody. Then it all happens automatically.

 

 Referenced by: Leil Lowndes (international bestseller author)

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